2008년 3월 3일 월요일
Courage (Parents Fighting)
One day in this year, my dad and my mom was fighting in house for somekind of money problem. I was listening to it in my room concerning about them. When I thought the fight between parents were getting worse, I went to them to stop it. I was really scared at first because I never did this in my whole life and I never went against my parents, but I made a decision that I had to do this. So, I went up to them and shouted front of my dad. The first time I did that, they didn't stop argueing but when I did it again, they said that they felt sorry. I think that was the most courageous time because I never had many dangerous time in my life, but if I had it I would have more of these problems to talk about.
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John,
Confronting our own family members takes REAL courage.
Thank you for sharing this.
Ms. J.
I had a really similar experience, my parents were fighting but instead of shouting at my dad, i reasoned that he was being unreasonable, unfortunately, it didn't work untill about 2 days or so
Parent, domestic problems. Ack. Being swirled in to such stuff is really painful for me. Here, you have to see them everyday, and what could be the best choice? Not about the arguing only(well, most married couples must have had a dispute once in a while.)but domestic family problems like "oh no, the money is..." "what would be the best way to..." "there is an issue on..."
I'm no professional, so I won't say that I know solutions to such things. But due to all the moving around from countries to countries(for permenant life), I figured some stuffs that should be kept private and distinguished them from things that could be told. Also, I found some ways to solve problems in the family. Anyways, the point is: I AGREE, TRYING TO SOLVE DOMESTIC PROBLEMS IS VERY SCARY AAAA!
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